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I am using this site as my offical consulting network as a life coach. I will be forwarding my other websites to this one or repost articles from there to this one.

I am NOT a therapist or a licensed consultant. I do NOT have a practice as a therapist. Consultations are based on personal experience and successes with counseling family and friends. I have also had success with counseling people on some of my websites.

My assistance mainly consists of listening to people and helping them come to their own conclusions about what they need to do.  The following people have said the following about their experience with me. 

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Diane said, “JuLynne provides consulting services for home, business, and web. She has a blend of compassion and boldness in her writing”. 

Others said these kind words: 

Doyle said, “It’s as if you wrote the book for me…You have the amazing power to mirror life in general.” 

Carol said, “You’re the only person I’ve found in my entire life who truly understands where I’m coming from.” 

Anne said, “I was able to put things to rest because of what I read in your book.” 

A businessman and writer as well, Terrance Norton gives the following endorsement. “With her infinate love for mankind, she will do and say what she feels is right. I can say with confidence that Judy has tough skin, and yet she has a wonderfully soft heart with compassion oozing out of her towards mankind.”

Terrance continues by saying, “Known to be cheerful when facing trials, Judy looks at adversity and laughs about how she deals with it. For sure, she knows what peace in the middle of chaos means. She doesn’t just talk it, she lives it. She writes about this topic because that is her heart, a mentor to help people in times that seem to have no end. So why would she laugh when most of us will go the ways of our character weaknesses? She laughs because she chooses to focus on the postitive and not the negative. ”

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Do you appreciate the powerful force that women have in society?

When was the last time you thought about the impact women have on us in general and how we would be without their influence?

At her best, a woman is an angel and an inspiration – exemplifying to most us what womanhood means.

At her worst, however, a woman is the picture of evil – partially responsible for the breakdown of the family unit and the downfall of society.

Women are lovely, soft, gentle, kind, persuasive, and a blessing to society. Also, they represent sensuality, lust, and sometimes naughtiness.

A women can do just about anything she wants today – perhaps even become President of the United States or a ruler of whatever country in which she lives.

The characteristics I just described clearly represent women of today; they are an awesome creation.

Some women are meek and dependent on men, other women are physically and emotionally strong and very independent – rarely needing the assistance of a man.

A woman can be a blessing or a thorn in man’s side. This would depend on whether she is selfish and self-serving or not and if her agenda is in agreement with his.

Alas, womanhood also represents the warm and gentle arms every man and child looks for when they are hurt or need love. She gives him a warm place to fall or is his soft pillow when he has had a bad day.

Women create a lovely home environment and makes life bearable in a dreary world.

• She has the ability to make the world go away and become a heaven on earth instead.
• She is the ray of sunshine in the center of a hurricane.
• She is the lovely smell of flowers in the midst of a garbage pit.
• She is everything good and bad all wrapped up into one neat package.
• She encompasses what most men would die for, and still she has energy left to raise a family.
• She is a multi-task expert as a house-keeper, bookkeeper, executive secretary, cook, teacher, childcare specialist, counselor, errand girl, professional buyer, party planner, hostess, sex partner, and confidant.

Sometimes a woman is misunderstood and under-appreciated: she’s seen as just “plain Jane” and nothing very special or interesting. This is a sad situation, not only for the woman but for the man as well because he is missing out by not enjoying her beautiful qualities.

“Make an ugly woman your wife and you will be happy for the rest of your life” are words taken from a song that I enjoyed in the 1960s. There is wisdom in those words. What one man sees as ugly could be beautiful to another, especially when she is allowed to bloom and be herself.

A women needs to be cherished for her divine nature and loved for her loving heart. She needs to be appreciated for her kindness and compassion, for her ability to soothe an aching spirit and soul, and for her ability to nurse our physical wounds and sufferings.

A woman is a creature that not only encompasses everything good, she is sexual enough to satisfy the wild beast in man – without question, she is a marvelous and extraordinary creation!

Take the time to contemplate on the blessing she is to you. If she is not a blessing, then please take her aside and tell her how you feel. Ask her how you can help her become more of who she wants to be. Give her the support she needs to be that person and to be more of what you want her to be as well.

Take the time to remember the women you fell in love with, even if it has been over 50 years of marriage. Tell her often that she is important to you and that you care about her happiness.

Teach your children to appreciate women and to honor and respect them. Teach them to treat women properly and to love them with care and attention. Just as you take care of a beautiful flower to keep it blooming, be sure to take care of your beautiful woman so she can keep blooming.

Men will feel more like men when they treat women with respect and kindness, and women will reward them with the things they want when they do.

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This is so beautiful… It makes me appreciate the things I often take for granted. It warms my heart and gives me joy. It makes me think about how wonderful the simple things in life are and how much these things mean to me. I thought you might enjoy this special video as well.  Just click on the work LIFE below.

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I set up a site to help people with their business goals. One way to help people with their goals is monetization and another is attraction marketing (attracting potential clients, customers, and associates that are interested in them and what they offer).  Attraction Marketing maximizes the effectiveness of their websites by attracting the attention of search engines as well. Click on this link to visit my site at: Income Solution, to assists Independent Business Owners and Network Marketers.

If you’ve been in the business of Network Marketering for awhile, you know how complicated this field can get sometimes. I’ve been there and back – from failure to success and success to failure – and so I know that some people see their dreams come true in business and some do not.  From experience, I also know what makes people succeed and what does not.

Everywhere you turn, you see ads that promote advice from so-called experts. They offer their expertise as mentors or business coaches. I also know that “Coaches” seem to be “a dime a dozen” on the Internet.  This situation may cause you to wonder if you really need a coach like me for your business. It also begs the question, “If I have an impressive upline, do I still need a coach?”  The answer is “YES!”, if you are serious about succeeding in the field of Network Marketing. The next question is “Who should I hire?”

You should take the time to watch some of my videos to see if the teaching is helpful. If you agree with what I teach, then lets get you started.

I am anxious to work with positive and motivated people. If you have a negative attitude – because life keeps beating up on you – let me help you get that spark back into your life. “Living a life without purpose and vision is like a flower without scent or a honey bee without nectar.” (Quote is from Judith Sherman’s book: The Treasure Box Series, Volume I: Peace, Joy, and Happiness. It’s from the chapter titled: Create a Life with Purpose.)

Network Marketing Principles by Judith Sherman – Watch more Videos at Vodpod.     Comment From:  robsalzberg (4 months ago)  Judy what a great video. Your so right you need to meet people where there at. Great content on what to prioritize in your life. Looking forward to watching more of your videos. Take care & God Bless.

JudysSolutions (4 months ago) Thank you so much for the kind words. I learned this principles in the early 80’s. It makes a difference in the way people accept your leadership.

If you are looking for something more than what you are presently getting, work with Judith for awhile (it’s free for the first five sessions) and see what you can do together. Fill out the contact form below and she will send you some information to get you started.

Judith Sherman is a “Life Coach” as well as a Network Marketing Coach. She is a published author of “The Treasure Box Series” and “Sex, What About It?”. Judith has been in Network Marketing since 1977 and seen both failure and successes. She is now teaching Internet Network Marketing.

As a “Life Coach”, Judith helps people live a fuller life personally,in the family, or in group settings. She works through emails, phone, or personal visits when possible. Go to www.JudithSherman.com and see the services provided and then fill out the contact form.

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Time and again, we hear of heart-warming stories where someone has taken a bad situation and turned it into a positive experience or a blessing.  Today, I read of one such story from Story of My Life. You can sign up on their mailing list to have stories like this one emailed to you.

The story mentioned above is about Josh and events that followed he and his fiance’s breakup. When he tried to  return the engagement ring back to the store, Josh was told he would receive only 35% of the diamond ring’s value. He had no choice but to put the ring away in a drawer or take a huge loss on his investment.

From the realization that he was stuck with the diamond, and knowing there must be others in the same situation, he decided to start an online auction house.  Josh started “I Do Now I Don’t” (http://www.idonowidont.com) to help himself and others buy or sell their rings;  later, he took on wedding dresses and other items.

Just as Josh turned a sad event into a successful online business, you  can take a need you and others have and turn it into an online business as well. Consider what need you and others have in common that cannot presently be resolved?  Then consider that you and those people can come together online and make a successful business with it, while helpping yourself and others at the same time?

I wrote a book titled “The Land of My Potential” after an amazing experience happened to me in March 2000, which later became “The Treasure Box Series” when I realized there were three books in one.  It was after September 11, 2001, that I added “Peace, Joy, and Happiness” to the book series. Then, in 2008, I decided to quit complaing about the current sexual permissiveness and write “Sex, What About It?” as a followup to the book Peace, Joy, and Happiness. I am presently working on another book.  All of this is the result of one experience in 2000.

Perhaps you can do something like I have done or Josh did to solve a problem. You have to have the conviction that you can do it. I suggest you watch my videos, poor as they are because I was learning about recording videos, and learn that “I Will Not Be Denied My Destiny!”  See my videos at www.YouTube.com/JudysSolutions or http://vodpod.com/lifecoach

“Perhaps you will forget tomorrow the kind words you say today, but the recipient may cherish them over a lifetime.”

- Dale Carnegie

The following success principles are what I learned at Dale Carnegie Training. I have applied these principles myself and learned to make them a part of my everyday life.

Good relationships are key to business success. Here are some tips on strengthening your relationships:

- Don’t criticize, condemn, or complain
- Give honest, sincere appreciation
- Become genuinely interested in other people
- Smile when you speak on the phone or when you talk to people
- Be a good listener
- Encourage others to talk about themselves
- Make the other person understand that you consider them important

I want to speak to you for a moment about the last tip, “Making the other person feel important”.

One of our first assignments at Dale Carnegie Training was to apply the first nine Dale Carnegie Golden Rules to our work or home environments. My assignment was to take one of the principles you see above and apply it to my life and then report on the result in a few weeks. Let me tell you the miracle that happened when I applied the concept ”Making the other person feel important” in my relationship with my husband.

My husband had been a real bear at home for the past several months. I didn’t realize the reason for his attitude until I did my homework assignment: letting my husband know that he is important to me. I didn’t recognize that I had been so involved in my work, building websites and writing blogs, that I was not paying much attention to my husband.

It  seemed my husband  did not care about what I was doing because he was always watching his TV programs, and so I had not noticed that he wanted me around more. I was either working all the time in the office or on my laptop. It should have been a clue that I was overly involved in my work when my husband made the comment that he wanted to throw my laptop out the window.  I guess I was clueless until I took the training course.

When I made a sincere effort to pay attention to my husband and to make him feel like he was an important part of my life, he suddenly became sweet and attentive toward me.  He started waiting up for me to come home from my class and then take the time to listen and to talk to me about things. He didn’t do that before, in fact, he hadn’t done that in a very long time.  He also started acting more caring towards me, which made me feel a lot more caring towards him. . . amazing how that works.

Our relationship improved dramatically, all because I started to do the things I used to do but had forgotten about because I was too busy. It really wasn’t that hard to do, and what I did had a huge reward attached to it.

I suggest that you try just one of the principles listed above like I did, and then tell me what you learned are after doing it.  Also, tell me how applying that principle on a regular basis has changed your life. I am sure others would like to hear your story as well.

Okay, it’s true that news about the economy is scary right now. So what, shelter yourself from the fallout the best you can and then do your business with the economy in mind. You know the problem, so be flexible. Business only survives in hard times when it takes reality into consideration and adjusts its goals accordingly. This could mean lowering prices, offering incentives, grouping products that compliment each other and discount the package, offer coupons for loyalty shopping, and give coupons or incentives when someone refers a friend.

People will still buy what they need and want, maybe not to the extent that they used to, but they will still spend. If your product line does not include what people need, then perhaps you should reconsider what you offer or at least expand to offer some of those items in addition to what you have presently.

Network marketers will have to make adjustments as well. Offer incentives that create a need to purchase now instead of waiting to buy later. If quality products cost too much and there is something you can sell that is cheaper and maintains quality, then people will buy that product instead of yours. You would be wise to consider the customer’s needs and how buying your product benefits him or her; otherwise, offer something they will use in order to stay marketable.

A smart business owner knows he or she should sell things people need every day and will have to purchase it from you often. People buy what they need and naturally will spend the least amount of money to obtain it.

• If your product is a quality product, then use quality as a selling point.
• If people don’t care about quality and they want cheap, then use cost per use as a selling point or offer them a cheap product as well.
• If people don’t care about cost or quality and they care about who they do business with, then “YOU” need to be the selling point.

An experienced business person recognizes all three of these points and uses them to promote the business! In this way, when people have the choice, they will choose your company over others. Your job is to make your advertisements and your presentation must showcase these three points. Offer lucrative incentives for consumers so they choose your business, as satisfied consumers, because you offer them value in your products and/or services.

Pleae take this poll so that other readers have a good idea of what works for you and what does not.

Thank you.

I know there are so many social sites you are invited to, and I appreciate that problem, but I hope you will look at mine and see if you can help me get it up and running. If not, that’s okay. I will try something else. I appreciate just you checking it out for me. Thank you. Please sign my Guest Book so I know you stopped by. Thanks. Judy

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Posted on: 03/12/2009 1:25 AM With  BetterNetworker. com    

Judith Sherman

I just completed a twelve week course with Dale Carnegie. Not only is it worth three college credits, but it adds value to my business goals as well. I highly recommend you take this course when you have the opportunity.

Not one person in our group realized the impact this course would have on them and their profession. We each had different reasons for taking the course, and yet the experience turned out to be much more rewarding than we had expected.

Because I’ve been in Network Marketing for over thirty years, and because I’ve attended all the seminars and read all the books (including “How to Win Friends and Influence People”), I expected to learn very little from the course. All I wanted was to add the Dale Carnegie Training Course to my portfolio for credibility reasons. Instead, what I got was smoothed out rough edges of my character and the skills I already had developed into better communication and more confidence in my ability and expertise.

The Dale Carnegie Training is designed to be personal in application. As a result, personal examination caused a huge change in my thinking and attitude. I now have more confidence in teaching what I know, more understanding of how people think, and how to be more direct in my presentations. With this increased confidence, I am starting up my own Training Center to help people in the following areas:

• Develop leadership skills and become a more effective leader
• Become a more persuasive communicator
• Reduce stress at home and work
• Improve problem solving skills at work and home
• Develop techniques to find a job by presenting ones self in a better light
• I am also putting together workshops to help families communicate better with each other.

I will not anything scheduled at this time, but plan to begin the training in late July or early August. I will keep you informed on when I plan to do a session, the subject of the session, and where. If you would like to schedule a home session for family and friends, contact me by email and we will talk about your needs.

In the meantime, I advise you to start reading the books listed below that are most useful in the Dale Carnegie program. You can get them online or in any bookstore. You can also click on these links and see amazon.com’s full page of Dale Carnegie books.

• How to Win Friends and Influence People – 293 pages
• The Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking – 1990 – 224 pages
• How to Stop Worrying and Start Living - 326 pages