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I am using this site as my offical consulting network as a life coach. I will be forwarding my other websites to this one or repost articles from there to this one.

I am NOT a therapist or a licensed consultant. I do NOT have a practice as a therapist. Consultations are based on personal experience and successes with counseling family and friends. I have also had success with counseling people on some of my websites.

My assistance mainly consists of listening to people and helping them come to their own conclusions about what they need to do.  The following people have said the following about their experience with me. 

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Diane said, “JuLynne provides consulting services for home, business, and web. She has a blend of compassion and boldness in her writing”. 

Others said these kind words: 

Doyle said, “It’s as if you wrote the book for me…You have the amazing power to mirror life in general.” 

Carol said, “You’re the only person I’ve found in my entire life who truly understands where I’m coming from.” 

Anne said, “I was able to put things to rest because of what I read in your book.” 

A businessman and writer as well, Terrance Norton gives the following endorsement. “With her infinate love for mankind, she will do and say what she feels is right. I can say with confidence that Judy has tough skin, and yet she has a wonderfully soft heart with compassion oozing out of her towards mankind.”

Terrance continues by saying, “Known to be cheerful when facing trials, Judy looks at adversity and laughs about how she deals with it. For sure, she knows what peace in the middle of chaos means. She doesn’t just talk it, she lives it. She writes about this topic because that is her heart, a mentor to help people in times that seem to have no end. So why would she laugh when most of us will go the ways of our character weaknesses? She laughs because she chooses to focus on the postitive and not the negative. ”

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REPOST FROM JULYNNE CONSULTING

YESTERDAY is gone and TOMORROW has not come, so what we have is TODAY.

Sure, YESTERDAY was good and has given us some fond memories,

Yet we believe that  TOMORROW will be even better.

The plans we’ve made TODAY will improve the quality of our lives

And provide more prosperity in the future!

It is healthy for us to be positive about our future and to have dreams of brighter days ahead; we were created to be that way. However, it is not healthy to put our lives on hold–waiting for happier and more rewarding times. We fool ourselves into thinking that:

• “When I am married, I will be happier.”
• “When I finish school, I will get a good job and make a lot more money.”
• “When I retire, I will have time to do the things I want to do now.”

In other words, there is always  ”WHEN”  before things will be better and before we will be happy. Do you see the flaw in this type of thinking?

We can be happy only when we learn to live in the now. We need to recognize the situation we live in and accept it for what it is now.

Happiness means we make the best of each and every minute that we live and learn from our mistakes.

Do not misunderstand me. I am not saying that we should give up on things getting better or that we should live as if there is no tomorrow by indulging ourselves and doing things that we will regret tomorrow.

I am saying that yesterday taught us how we want to live our lives now and childhood experiences taught us how to be happy with simplicity. Yesterday has made us who we are today, and tomorrow represents the choices we make today.

We cannot live in the past, and neither can we try to stand on past accomplishments so we stop progressing in the present. We need new dreams, new goals, and a new plan that is based on the realities of today.

Judging success and happiness on what has happened in the past or on what will happen in the future is a mistake. We are not the same person today as we were yesterday or as we will be tomorrow. We don’t know what trials and circumstances we will face in the future and what tools we will have available to overcome them. All we have is “NOW” to be happy and successful according to the standards that we’ve set for today. We need to take life as it comes and make it mean something to us in that moment.

Success is measured in many different ways by society and viewed by yourself in a variety of ways as well. Success can just be doing what you have always wanted to do and being the person you want to be. It doesn’t have to be what others think is successful, it’s what you value that is a true measure of your success.

For example, I wrote a book that I felt would help people avoid some of the pitfalls in life that I discovered and tell them what I learned about being a happier and more peaceful person. I succeeded in this endeavor because I did what I wanted to do. In other words, I published two books and helped people make their lives better through my writings; doing that has been very satisfying to me.

• Did I make a lot of money like I thought I would? No I did not!
• Does this mean that I am not successful? It depends on what I expected.
• What did I say I wanted to do? I said that I wanted to write a book to help people learn from my mistakes.  Is that what I did? Yes, I did what I said I wanted to do!
• Does it mean that I succeeded in doing what I wanted to do? Yes, and it helped people improve situations in their lives! As far as I am concerned, I succeeded in every aspect of my goals. Yes, more money would have been nice. However, my vision did not include becoming financially wealthy.

Hope and vision for the future keep us motivated and give us a reason to do things that prepare us for better days. My point is to live our lives according to the standards that we’ve set for ourselves and that make us happy in our present circumstances.

We need to live each day as if we’re ready to meet our maker. We need to be satisfied that we are right with God, right with our personal and business dealings, and right with family members. In addition, we need to be grateful for the breath that we take each day and thankful for all that we have been given in life.

The power within gives us the ability to be the person we want to be. We can choose to be angry and nasty or to be happy and grateful. Also, we can make each day be whatever we choose to make it. In other words, the day will be what we make of it.

We actually can change the world around us when we understand who we are and accept our responsibility to affect the world in a positive way. I believe these words whole-heartedly, and I know that this wisdom is found through my own experiences.

I know that life is not pleasant or beautiful when so much ugliness is around us, yet we see what we choose to see. Just because we know the reality of life, it doesn’t mean that we have to live according to the ways of the world — being in the world but not of the world. We can be the kind of person we choose to be and live according to our own standards!

This is how we need live our lives. We should not worry about what we are going to say or do or if that will affect how we will be accepted. We just need to start doing, saying, and being ourselves and then allow what will be to be whatever it is. We cannot become overly concerned about who is paying attention to us or to what we have to say.

We may never know how we affect people by our words or deeds. We need not dwell on that and just do what we know we need to do — without our motivation being to change people or to make them be who we think they should be. What we do and say needs to be what we know to be true for us and then allow others to do what they think is right for them.

I redirected my negative energy after 9/11/2001 by writing in my journal. Writing is how I made it through depression and became a blessing in my life. What I wrote turned into a book when I realized that others might be suffering in the same way and benefit from what I’ve learned.

Perhaps my experiences will help people get through their problems with depression and excessive thinking by reading how I managed to get through it. My journal was a blessing to me in solving problems. In many ways, inspiration came from my own words. . .even before I fully understood the meaning of a lesson. Actually, it is journal entries that formed the original manuscript and turned into a six book series, with more to come (five still needing to be published).

It is true that I hope someone reads this posting and benefits from it because there is wisdom and inspiration in the lessons I’ve experienced. However, this is not the main purpose for writing this post. My purpose is to share what I’ve learned with you and then you decide if it has value for you.

I feel inspired to write and so I do. Perhaps you will gain something more than just reading my words and decide, like I did, to make a difference in your life… making choices that are blessings to you (like writing in my journal blessed me). You may want to do as I have and write your own blog or start a journal.

We should try to live our lives according to the inspirations that we receive for present circumstances. How else can we know how to face the scary times ahead and know what to do? We just have to live by the promptings that come to us.

Now, if you just happened to stop by for a visit, please leave me a note to let me know that you came by . . . I would like to hear from you, read your comments, and perhaps hear about your life experiences.

In conclusion, let me say that I hope people will become more comfortable with who they are and not try so hard to be more acceptable to their peers.

God bless,

Judith Sherman

Written by my friend C.C.R.

“Out of the Darkness, into the Light”. These short seven words explain unmistakably the effects of healing the wounds of PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder) . While reading my daily inspirational “quotes”, I came across this one. We see and hear it often in religious sermons. For the many whose lives have been relentlessly challenged by life’s experiences and survived only by the grace of a higher power or some special intervention, we have an intimate understanding of going from darkness to light.

Sometimes we may reflect on how exactly we got to a “lighter” place:  lighter by the brilliance of radiance in our days, lighter in our spirits that carry a heavy burden, unseen, unfelt, and often times misunderstood, and lighter in our physical bodies that endured the trauma from our past.

The answer to how we got to the light may not be as important as the blessing, we are here. In reality, we don’t remain in this space of lightness every moment. Yet, when we experience these twinkles of happiness, we feel a profound sense of peace. A peace that lets us know we are not alone in our battles. A peace that validates we are loved and cared for during our conflicts. A peace that leaves us with the hope that when we are thrown back into the abyss, we CAN and WILL be able to climb back up to the light. Just trusting this inner knowing is what gets us through the dark days and nights. It is what enables us to wake each morning with new expectations for the day.  Without such trust it would be impossible to continue the journey, for the path is too unpredictable.

Healing Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder is built on the trust that through inner strength and outer resources we can not only survive and mend, we can thrive. Trauma can cause immense changes in our brains and bodies. It is not merely a matter of  ’sucking it up’  that will move us toward better physical and emotional health; it is taking action to get that help needed for healing. For most physical illnesses this is obvious.

If one has a life-threatening disease, he/she would get outside, professional help. She would endure the devastating effects of chemo and radiation to survive. He would go through open heart surgery to repair the damaged organ expecting months of rehabilitation and physical therapy. However, with emotional trauma, some in society still seem to attach a stigma.  The only weapon for dissolving the stigma is knowledge. And the only way knowledge blossoms is through openness, education, and courage.

You see it will take each of us to continue to share our insights with others. Truthfully, it is far easier to remain silent, hiding our wounds from the eyes of  [the] world. Yet, knowledge does not grow in such darkness. It requires light, nourishment, and valor. So it is up to each of us to contribute to the understanding of PTSD and how one can move “out of the darkness, into the light.”

Blessings and continue mending..

Easter is the season to remember our Savior died for us that we might live again and to take upon himself all of our sins and imperfections.

Easter is also the season that represents new birth and spring. . . with eggs, chicks, bunnies, and chocolate.

Do you appreciate the powerful force that women have in society?

When was the last time you thought about the impact women have on us in general and how we would be without their influence?

At her best, a woman is an angel and an inspiration – exemplifying to most us what womanhood means.

At her worst, however, a woman is the picture of evil – partially responsible for the breakdown of the family unit and the downfall of society.

Women are lovely, soft, gentle, kind, persuasive, and a blessing to society. Also, they represent sensuality, lust, and sometimes naughtiness.

A women can do just about anything she wants today – perhaps even become President of the United States or a ruler of whatever country in which she lives.

The characteristics I just described clearly represent women of today; they are an awesome creation.

Some women are meek and dependent on men, other women are physically and emotionally strong and very independent – rarely needing the assistance of a man.

A woman can be a blessing or a thorn in man’s side. This would depend on whether she is selfish and self-serving or not and if her agenda is in agreement with his.

Alas, womanhood also represents the warm and gentle arms every man and child looks for when they are hurt or need love. She gives him a warm place to fall or is his soft pillow when he has had a bad day.

Women create a lovely home environment and makes life bearable in a dreary world.

• She has the ability to make the world go away and become a heaven on earth instead.
• She is the ray of sunshine in the center of a hurricane.
• She is the lovely smell of flowers in the midst of a garbage pit.
• She is everything good and bad all wrapped up into one neat package.
• She encompasses what most men would die for, and still she has energy left to raise a family.
• She is a multi-task expert as a house-keeper, bookkeeper, executive secretary, cook, teacher, childcare specialist, counselor, errand girl, professional buyer, party planner, hostess, sex partner, and confidant.

Sometimes a woman is misunderstood and under-appreciated: she’s seen as just “plain Jane” and nothing very special or interesting. This is a sad situation, not only for the woman but for the man as well because he is missing out by not enjoying her beautiful qualities.

“Make an ugly woman your wife and you will be happy for the rest of your life” are words taken from a song that I enjoyed in the 1960s. There is wisdom in those words. What one man sees as ugly could be beautiful to another, especially when she is allowed to bloom and be herself.

A women needs to be cherished for her divine nature and loved for her loving heart. She needs to be appreciated for her kindness and compassion, for her ability to soothe an aching spirit and soul, and for her ability to nurse our physical wounds and sufferings.

A woman is a creature that not only encompasses everything good, she is sexual enough to satisfy the wild beast in man – without question, she is a marvelous and extraordinary creation!

Take the time to contemplate on the blessing she is to you. If she is not a blessing, then please take her aside and tell her how you feel. Ask her how you can help her become more of who she wants to be. Give her the support she needs to be that person and to be more of what you want her to be as well.

Take the time to remember the women you fell in love with, even if it has been over 50 years of marriage. Tell her often that she is important to you and that you care about her happiness.

Teach your children to appreciate women and to honor and respect them. Teach them to treat women properly and to love them with care and attention. Just as you take care of a beautiful flower to keep it blooming, be sure to take care of your beautiful woman so she can keep blooming.

Men will feel more like men when they treat women with respect and kindness, and women will reward them with the things they want when they do.

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This is so beautiful… It makes me appreciate the things I often take for granted. It warms my heart and gives me joy. It makes me think about how wonderful the simple things in life are and how much these things mean to me. I thought you might enjoy this special video as well.  Just click on the work LIFE below.

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I set up a site to help people with their business goals. One way to help people with their goals is monetization and another is attraction marketing (attracting potential clients, customers, and associates that are interested in them and what they offer).  Attraction Marketing maximizes the effectiveness of their websites by attracting the attention of search engines as well. Click on this link to visit my site at: Income Solution, to assists Independent Business Owners and Network Marketers.

If you’ve been in the business of Network Marketering for awhile, you know how complicated this field can get sometimes. I’ve been there and back – from failure to success and success to failure – and so I know that some people see their dreams come true in business and some do not.  From experience, I also know what makes people succeed and what does not.

Everywhere you turn, you see ads that promote advice from so-called experts. They offer their expertise as mentors or business coaches. I also know that “Coaches” seem to be “a dime a dozen” on the Internet.  This situation may cause you to wonder if you really need a coach like me for your business. It also begs the question, “If I have an impressive upline, do I still need a coach?”  The answer is “YES!”, if you are serious about succeeding in the field of Network Marketing. The next question is “Who should I hire?”

You should take the time to watch some of my videos to see if the teaching is helpful. If you agree with what I teach, then lets get you started.

I am anxious to work with positive and motivated people. If you have a negative attitude – because life keeps beating up on you – let me help you get that spark back into your life. “Living a life without purpose and vision is like a flower without scent or a honey bee without nectar.” (Quote is from Judith Sherman’s book: The Treasure Box Series, Volume I: Peace, Joy, and Happiness. It’s from the chapter titled: Create a Life with Purpose.)

Network Marketing Principles by Judith Sherman – Watch more Videos at Vodpod.     Comment From:  robsalzberg (4 months ago)  Judy what a great video. Your so right you need to meet people where there at. Great content on what to prioritize in your life. Looking forward to watching more of your videos. Take care & God Bless.

JudysSolutions (4 months ago) Thank you so much for the kind words. I learned this principles in the early 80’s. It makes a difference in the way people accept your leadership.

If you are looking for something more than what you are presently getting, work with Judith for awhile (it’s free for the first five sessions) and see what you can do together. Fill out the contact form below and she will send you some information to get you started.

Judith Sherman is a “Life Coach” as well as a Network Marketing Coach. She is a published author of “The Treasure Box Series” and “Sex, What About It?”. Judith has been in Network Marketing since 1977 and seen both failure and successes. She is now teaching Internet Network Marketing.

As a “Life Coach”, Judith helps people live a fuller life personally,in the family, or in group settings. She works through emails, phone, or personal visits when possible. Go to www.JudithSherman.com and see the services provided and then fill out the contact form.

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Time and again, we hear of heart-warming stories where someone has taken a bad situation and turned it into a positive experience or a blessing.  Today, I read of one such story from Story of My Life. You can sign up on their mailing list to have stories like this one emailed to you.

The story mentioned above is about Josh and events that followed he and his fiance’s breakup. When he tried to  return the engagement ring back to the store, Josh was told he would receive only 35% of the diamond ring’s value. He had no choice but to put the ring away in a drawer or take a huge loss on his investment.

From the realization that he was stuck with the diamond, and knowing there must be others in the same situation, he decided to start an online auction house.  Josh started “I Do Now I Don’t” (http://www.idonowidont.com) to help himself and others buy or sell their rings;  later, he took on wedding dresses and other items.

Just as Josh turned a sad event into a successful online business, you  can take a need you and others have and turn it into an online business as well. Consider what need you and others have in common that cannot presently be resolved?  Then consider that you and those people can come together online and make a successful business with it, while helpping yourself and others at the same time?

I wrote a book titled “The Land of My Potential” after an amazing experience happened to me in March 2000, which later became “The Treasure Box Series” when I realized there were three books in one.  It was after September 11, 2001, that I added “Peace, Joy, and Happiness” to the book series. Then, in 2008, I decided to quit complaing about the current sexual permissiveness and write “Sex, What About It?” as a followup to the book Peace, Joy, and Happiness. I am presently working on another book.  All of this is the result of one experience in 2000.

Perhaps you can do something like I have done or Josh did to solve a problem. You have to have the conviction that you can do it. I suggest you watch my videos, poor as they are because I was learning about recording videos, and learn that “I Will Not Be Denied My Destiny!”  See my videos at www.YouTube.com/JudysSolutions or http://vodpod.com/lifecoach

“Perhaps you will forget tomorrow the kind words you say today, but the recipient may cherish them over a lifetime.”

- Dale Carnegie

The following success principles are what I learned at Dale Carnegie Training. I have applied these principles myself and learned to make them a part of my everyday life.

Good relationships are key to business success. Here are some tips on strengthening your relationships:

- Don’t criticize, condemn, or complain
- Give honest, sincere appreciation
- Become genuinely interested in other people
- Smile when you speak on the phone or when you talk to people
- Be a good listener
- Encourage others to talk about themselves
- Make the other person understand that you consider them important

I want to speak to you for a moment about the last tip, “Making the other person feel important”.

One of our first assignments at Dale Carnegie Training was to apply the first nine Dale Carnegie Golden Rules to our work or home environments. My assignment was to take one of the principles you see above and apply it to my life and then report on the result in a few weeks. Let me tell you the miracle that happened when I applied the concept ”Making the other person feel important” in my relationship with my husband.

My husband had been a real bear at home for the past several months. I didn’t realize the reason for his attitude until I did my homework assignment: letting my husband know that he is important to me. I didn’t recognize that I had been so involved in my work, building websites and writing blogs, that I was not paying much attention to my husband.

It  seemed my husband  did not care about what I was doing because he was always watching his TV programs, and so I had not noticed that he wanted me around more. I was either working all the time in the office or on my laptop. It should have been a clue that I was overly involved in my work when my husband made the comment that he wanted to throw my laptop out the window.  I guess I was clueless until I took the training course.

When I made a sincere effort to pay attention to my husband and to make him feel like he was an important part of my life, he suddenly became sweet and attentive toward me.  He started waiting up for me to come home from my class and then take the time to listen and to talk to me about things. He didn’t do that before, in fact, he hadn’t done that in a very long time.  He also started acting more caring towards me, which made me feel a lot more caring towards him. . . amazing how that works.

Our relationship improved dramatically, all because I started to do the things I used to do but had forgotten about because I was too busy. It really wasn’t that hard to do, and what I did had a huge reward attached to it.

I suggest that you try just one of the principles listed above like I did, and then tell me what you learned are after doing it.  Also, tell me how applying that principle on a regular basis has changed your life. I am sure others would like to hear your story as well.